I have put a notice on Facebook that I'm no longer checking that site, after I concluded that a relationship, built through that site, was not viable. It probably goes without saying that I'm very upset indeed. It has also had repercussions in my private life, and I do not know if that damage can be mended easily, which has made matters even worse.
I won't make any announcement whether I'll be posting or not, I'll have to take that a day at a time. You will have noticed that my attendance at your blogs has fallen to near-zero, and that won't improve any time soon. I am pleased to note that Jeannette (Outside Looking In) is keeping Call for Support updated.
On that subject, I have been informed that Morton (Caring n Sharing) was admitted to hospital yesterday with a heart attack. My source was unfortunately the person with whom I have now cut off contact.
I just saw your note on Facebook and wondered if everything was OK.
ReplyDeleteI do hope that maybe fences can be mended.
You know we are all here for you and I'm sending hugs your way.
Sorry to hear about Morton.
You take care of yourself Guido.
Hugsxx
Oh Guido, it just doesn't get any easier for you my dear. I'm sorry the relationship has ended and now you are dealing with even more unpleasant issues in your life.
ReplyDeleteAll my best to you,
xx
Guido, I have posted a on Call For Support for Mort. Although I have no definite confirmation, I could not take the chance of overlooking it. If so, he must be frantic about his poor Mother and she about him. He has been through so much lately as have you.
ReplyDeleteWe do understand, Guido, take your time but remember that writing and being in contact with other journal keepers can be great therapy, it has got me through some very bad times as you know.
Do what you feel is right. Always listen to that little inner voice, it is rarely wrong. Hugs to you my friend.
Hey guido, you have had a difficult year, so far and I hope thing improve for you, take a break to hopefully pu things in order and we'll see you when your ready to come back.
ReplyDeleteTake care
Yasmin
xx
I'm out of the loop regarding Facebook, therefore, I don't understand what happened since I can't read it. My girlfriend is on that and has be listed as a friend, that's all.
ReplyDeleteI'm here for you Sweetie! I feel bad that you are upset. I do hope you will not allow all this stuff to rent space in your head so you can go on.............it's not that easy I know.......
Hugs, Hugs, Hugs, Rose
I wouldn`t have considered you as being easily upset so it is obvious that you are really hurt Guido. Take care and I`ll be thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteLove and Hugs
Sandra xx
Take care of you Guido...
ReplyDeleteand you go out of your way for everyone in how much you do here and when we were on journals... I haven't had much time for reading and commenting myself lately...
but know that you are always in my thoughts that you are safe and happy....
Guido, I am so very sorry. Take care of yourself in whatever way you need to. You are in such a vulnerable state right now, that I do really worry about you. So stay in touch one way or another, okay?
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry about what you are going through. You just take care....
ReplyDeletedear Guido,
ReplyDeleteIt's almost Sinter Klass!
Guido we rely on you so: you are so compassioante, so thoughtful, so kind,
so ingenuous, a dear friend, a great companion to us all, me too, (sigh).
I am torn up to have to realize that someone has hurt your feelings so.
You are w person whom we all love and love to love.
Please stay with us.
I will be sending love and friendship your way.
love,natalie
I'm sorry to hear that you are having problems. I hope that your spirits heal soon. Just wanted to tell you thank you for all you do. I know I never really knew you before the move to blogger, but I knew the name as a person who was nice and always helped. Just take one day at a time. Things will get better.
ReplyDeleteTake care, Chrissie
I don't think I have ever been to FaceBook. It sounds a lot like My Space and I don't use that either. So I am also out of the loop as to what has happened at either of those sites.
ReplyDeletePlease hang in there, everything will get better. It may take some time.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
i am so sorry for all that is going on Guido. Hugs to you
ReplyDeleteWe are all here for you, Guido. Take care of yourself. Sending warm thoughts your way.
ReplyDeleteGuido, I want you to know that you are so appreciated for who you are to us and all you do for us. An uplifting word, sharing of photos, letting us all know when someone else is down.
ReplyDeleteI will keep you in my thoughts, sending only good thoughts your way and hope that tomorrow brings you one day closer to feeling better.
Sending warm thoughts and good vibes for a better tomorrow.
ReplyDeletelove ya,
carlene
Just checking in on you.
ReplyDelete((((((((hugs)))))))
andi
I am sorry you are upset. I was thinking I wonder if Guido will post about the earthquake in Taiwan. A relative was there on a Mormon Mission, and I think it was around 6 on the richter scale. My niece did learn more on the Internet, but my niece still has not heard from her son. He was staying 40 miles away. You can't help it if you must stop and recover. If that feels better you must do what you need to do. I think emotionl trauma can be almost as crippling as physical. Gerry
ReplyDeleteJust passing, thought I would call in and see how you are. Hope you are feeling a bit more positive today.
ReplyDeleteNo snow for us today, just torrential rain and howling wind.
Stay safe and warm Guido.
Thinking of you.
Hugs
Carolxx
I know nothing of facebook either.but ,Guido.dear man..you of all people know- most are not what they portray to be.Let it roll off your shoulders and stride on with your head held high,as only you can do.You can't disappear from us-us old J-landers that care ..and you 'know' we do!!
ReplyDeleteI signed on for Facebook because my daughter asked me to, as she is on there, but I forget to go over there unless someone sends me a gift or whatever. I just don't have that kind of time these days.
ReplyDeleteAs for you my dear friend hang on in there. You have a lot of friends here offering their support. You are very special to a lot of us.
Take care.
Jeanie
Just a note to say that I care, and I'm thinking of you. Relationships are important, and tricky, and sometimes hard or can backfire, and some are so utterly worth it. Hang in there, I don't expect or assume that you'll be writing or visiting, but if you do, great, and know I consider you a friend.
ReplyDeleteHey Guido,
ReplyDeleteThe person who hurt your feelings is the biggest loser, in not having your friendship any longer. I, for one, value your friendship very much, as I have written you often. You are a wonderful person, so don't let the losers of the world get you down for long.
Hi Guido,
ReplyDeleteI am sorry you are going through this.
You deserve So much better!!!
You are always there for everyone - we all think you are the best!!!
I'll never forget how you were always there for me when I was going through my very rough times with a kind word for me or asking others for support for me.
I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Michelle